Bahasa Cinta Perempuan : Penelitian Fenomenologik Hal yang Membuat Istri Merasa Dicintai
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Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menemukan hal apa yang paling membuat seorang istri merasa dicintai, terinspirasi dari teori Five Love Languages Chapman (2010). Peneliti melibatkan 50 subyek perempuan yang telah menikah dengan menggunakan metode kualitatif fenomenologik. Hasil dari penelitian ini, peneliti menemukan lima hal yang membuat istri merasa dicintai. Kelima bahasa cinta istri temuan dari penelitian ini adalah: Communication, Receiving Gift, Family Time, Acts of Service serta Karakter dan Temperamen. Selain lima temuan ini, peneliti juga menemukan satu tema pokok diluar bahasa cinta istri yaitu Uncategorized. Dari lima temuan peneliti, tiga diantaranya merupakan bahasa cinta khas dari istri di Indonesia diluar teori Chapman yaitu Communication, Family Time serta Karakter dan Temperamen. Temuan ini akan membawa dampak bagi penelitian selanjutnya dalam memahami bahasa cinta pada konteks Indonesia.
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